PRAY – SEEK – ACT

Recently I happened upon a simple process in dealing with “key moments.”  Key moments are those triggering events that demand a response.  It is not necessarily that I did not “know” this, but the  process became radiantly clear and my awareness was heightened.  This process is outlined below …

  1. PRAY FIRST. At the point of awareness of a key moment, PRAY FIRST.  This is true whether one judges the key moment as problem or opportunity.  Pray first.  Pray with the person if appropriate, or pause and pray solo.
  2. SEEK WISDOM. Before making a decision, SEEK WISDOM.  Talk to someone else.  Share your thinking.  Listen to the Holy Spirit.  Are you missing anything?  Are you projecting anything?  Be open to input.  Seek and you will find clarity.
  3. ACT INCREMENTALLY. When ready, then ACT INCREMENTALLY.  Take action in small steps.  One of the benefits of the recent / current economy is that my focus and vision has become more short sighted.  In other words, I have been forced to focus on the next day vs. the next year.  And it has been good.  Take just the next step.  Resist the temptation to plan out the next week / month / year.  And then for the next step / decision /action – repeat this process.

TAKE NOTE!  This process can take as little as a couple of minutes.  Don’t be fooled that this takes too long or you don’t have the time.  Put this process into practice for all of your key moments.  Share with me how it works.  PRAY—SEEK—ACT.

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The Fourth Quarter

I was reflecting on a verse of Scripture recently and challenged by a speaker I heard this week where he referenced life in the fourth quarter.  He talked about Psalm 90:10 (NIV) which says, “The length of our days is seventy years— or eighty, if we have the strength; yet their span is but trouble and sorrow, for they quickly pass, and we fly away.”

What is so striking to me is that if we have maybe 80 years of life to live on this earth that I will be entering the fourth quarter of mine next year and I am challenged with the idea of what I should I be doing while the clock keeps ticking.  I have been praying about this a lot and have made the decision that I want to go out doing whatever it takes to serve the Lord while enjoying the rest of my journey.  That may mean I must make some changes in my attitude, or my goals, or any of the other comfort zones I have created.  I am not sure how much time you have left – I would encourage you to seek Him to find out if there are any course corrections you should consider before continuing on the path set before you.  I heard the speaker say that he would rather do something great for God and fail then sit back do nothing and succeed.  So, how is your journey so far?  Is there anything you want to do differently with your life to glorify God while you still have the time?

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The Process is the Point

Processes, systems, structures …  In the world of business, much emphasis is placed on the processes to achieve specific outcomes.  Process is defined as a systematic series of actions directed to some end.  We create customer service processes to generate satisfied customers and repeat business.  We develop marketing processes to drive new customers / clients.  We build efficient infrastructures (accounting, administration, technology) to minimize costs and maximize profits.  It’s all about the result.  Process is good based on the result.

God is far less concerned than we are about the result.  God cares much more about the process.  Becoming who God wants is more important than getting what God wants.  Oswald Chambers writes in My Utmost for His Highest

We must never put our dreams of success as God’s purpose for us.  The question of getting to a particular end is a mere incident.  What we call process, God calls the end. His purpose is that I depend on Him and on His power now.  It is the process, not the end, which is glorifying to God.

It is the process of depending upon God, not our focus on results, that will get us where God wants us to go.

“In his heart a man plans his course, but the Lord determines his steps.” (Prov 16:9)

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Wait to Move

One of the most difficult challenges in business is to be patient and wait—wait on God.  Our default is generally TO DO, to TAKE ACTION.  In fact, much of my work and value as a business coach is to “help people DO what they would not normally DO on their own.”  On top of this, the world values and reinforces ACTION, speed, quick response, instant gratification.  So to wait is counter-intuitive.

God loves to be counter-intuitive and he calls us to sometimes TAKE ACTION and to sometimes WAIT TO MOVE.  The Israelites experienced this very dramatically as they set out for the Promised Land.  God was their guide by means of a cloud.  God’s directions were simple—move with the cloud.  Sometimes the cloud did not move for a day, a week, even a year.  I can imagine the frustration the Israelites felt.  They lost their ability to plan and to be in control.  They had to be tempted, as I often am, to move—to do something—because it feels like it’s time to act.  Waiting feels unproductive.

Today we continue to be challenged in similar ways.  We are not to move unless the Holy Spirit’s “cloud” leads us.  It takes great faith to move only when directed, to surrender our will to God’s will, to trust our actions and plans to Him and not succumb to the pressure to move on our own.

Take a moment and look up.  Are you and your business under God’s cloud right now?  Maybe you have moved when He said to stay put.  If so, take cover.

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Get Focused or Become Fascinated

I came across two verses in the book of Hebrews (NIV) that instructs us to “fix.”  The first one says we are to fix our thoughts on Jesus.  “Therefore, holy brothers, who share in the heavenly calling, fix your thoughts on Jesus, the apostle and high priest whom we confess.” (Heb 3:1)  And, the second one says, “Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.” (Heb 12:2)

One definition of the word fix as a verb says to direct attention, or focus, to concentrate – to focus one’s thoughts.  When I picture someone trying to focus or concentrate on something, I see a person with their eyes closed tightly and their nose a little wrinkled.  This seems like hard work to me.  When I try really hard to focus on something (like Jesus) – I am more aware of other stuff that wants to get through while focusing.  Am I the only one who has to deal with this?  I call that head noise.   This powerful head noise has a way of disrupting our focus (concentration) and more often than not also succeeds in discouraging us.  It makes it hard to  continue concentrating when this happens.

I suggest a substitute word for focus and that is the word fascinate.  Fascinate is also a verb which means … to cause to be interested or curious, to capture the attention or imagination of; to excite the curiosity of; to engage the interest of.  I believe this is a more powerful word than focus because when one becomes fascinated with something or someone, the head noise is stopped before it ever gets started on its path of disruption and discouragement.  I am reminded of little children when they are fascinated with a story on television (or anything for that matter).  Almost everything around them has a way of going on without them ever noticing a thing.  They are oblivious to everything else except that which has captured their attention.  I wonder if that is what the Scripture means when it says we are to “fix our thoughts and eyes” upon Jesus.  What would it mean to us and what would be the impact on our lives if we really became fascinated with Jesus in the same way?

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More Than a Name

The story of the rich man and poor man in Luke 16:19-31 is notable for something that is missing … the rich man’s name.  Jesus says the name of the poor man was Lazarus.  While the rich man is nameless, the poor man is given the honor of a name.  Lazarus is not worth much when viewed through a worldly filter, yet in the Kingdom the poor man has value.  The rich man – despite being wealthy, having lots of possessions, and holding a high position – is nameless.

Perhaps the lack of a name is an invitation to place our name in the story.  How are we like the rich man?  What excess wealth do we hold on to?  Who are the people and what are the needs that we fail to see, or close our eyes to?

Many times in the business world we are urged to focus on getting to know “C-level” people, or networking with those who are important enough and projected to be “rich” enough so they can give us something we want.  While this makes business sense, don’t forget those who may be “rich” in the eyes of God.  Get to know the names of those who serve you, who are not in a position to give you something in return.  Pay attention to the names of these people like Jesus did – notice them, honor them, and call them by their name.

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Throw Down Your Staff

Check out Exodus 4:2-5.  In summary, the Lord asked Moses what he held in his hand.  “A staff” Moses replied.  The Lord then told Moses to “throw it on the ground.”  When Moses does this, the staff turns into a snake.  The Lord then instructed Moses to reach out and take the snake by the tail.  When Moses did that and took hold of the snake, it turned back into a staff.

Moses’ staff functioned as a walking stick, a weapon, and a prod to guide the sheep.  A shepherd never left home without his staff.  A shepherd’s staff represented security – physical, financial, relational.  For Moses, his staff was also part of his identity.  Moses saw himself as simply a shepherd.  He even challenged God to choose someone else to lead the Israelites.  “Who am I?!” Moses countered back to God.

Has God called you to throw something down … something that is part of your security or in which you place your identity?  It’s hard to let go, isn’t it?!  It feels like I am losing control.  And that is the point!  God wanted Moses to let go of his security and identity and rely solely on Him.  God wants you and me to also “throw down our staff” to become what He wants us to be.  Moses had to throw down the shepherd’s staff in order for it to be transformed into the powerful rod of God.

These are trying economic times.  It tempts me to tighten my grip on my identity and security.  Where do you find your identity?  What is the source of your security?  As long as you or I hold on to our staffs, we will never know what we can accomplish when we surrender to God’s power.  It may be time to let go …

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